Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Intentionally Setting Matters on Fire ...

As expected, after the Monday night episode, when I woke up this morning, I decided to SMS the DareMan pretending to see the miss calls from last night ... he didn't answer until much later ... he is sleeping I guess ... so much for his efforts at getting up and exercising ...

He said he wanted to meet and talk about the exciting developments in China ... yeah right! And he suggests Bilax2 to which I said no. This is simply because I was already in Bilax2 with the Burnt Man and the Just Man catching up on the things happening and the things yet to come ... so much to juggle, I kid you not!

So we ended up going out to Le Teng and he didn't know that they had something called deep fried chicken wan tan mee. Naturally he whacked it all and said it was very good. Hahahahahaha!

Naturally he started talking about who came to meet them in Shanghai, developments coming more and more in Dongping and what-not. And then as per his norm, he talked without thinking and saying that even though things are exciting, he cannot imagine living in China for the project especially now that he is a family man! You see? He wants the money but he doesn't want the hardship. So he asks if I am keen. I said I am open for anything but naturally I told him that if it is Dongping, it is a 22 days work and 8 days off to Malaysia or 3 weeks work and 1 week off to Malaysia. I didn't tell him about matters such as pay and benefits. After all, does that mean I have no chance of ever having a family of my own if I continue to work for this company? If so, then this company is a selfish company, right?

Anyway, after the nonsense is over, he came down to the crux and asked about the reasons for my email. I explained it to him and I could see from his face, he was trying to find a weak ass answer. So he blamed everyone but himself. He said he wanted the secretary to assist me and have been telling her to get it done not for her to demand that I do it (???). Then he said this is in case head office HRD comes a-checking. How is this even possible when he kept my employment in a subsidiary and managed by a different company? Ah well ... let him say what he wanted. At least, he knows now how I feel. Of course, he had to comment on salaries and what-not. Hey, I am sorry if your pay is low. But you are family. And Master W is a successful CEO of his own companies who still has millions to his name. As for me, I am 40, still single, still trying to find his fortune. So excuse me if I am not willing to work for small pay, making everyone and the company a success and sacrificing personal life as well. Again ... some people ...

The worst part? He actually thought staying in the hotel is a good thing for me. Hello! What about my personal life? Personal space? The villa is not my own as I am subjected to relocate any time and people can pop in any time as well! UGH!

Finally, in the afternoon, Master W also called me up (he called twice earlier but each time I was tied up on the phone interviewing coincidentally) ... he also asked me why and then assured me that they trusted me and just ignored all the idiots around ... so he must have spoken to the DareMan and realized it is the DareMan who had annoyed the hell out of me ... after that, we talked about work in general. Ah well ... let us see what is next eh?

I am praying that the Av-Ani-Deal goes through well enough so that our performance remains positive and we have a good year. Sigh! Quite stressful I tell you

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