This is such a beautiful place in Dubai that I just have to stick it here ... even though I am now back home in KL, Malaysia ... I have just collected the keys to my new apartment (my first ever purchase) yesterday ... and I learnt all about the rights to get minor defects fixed! Thank goodness for helpful parents who have experience in such matters as I am generally non-confrontational ...
Anyway the title of this posting is moving on ... and that's precisely what I have decided upon ... something happened to me in 1998/ 1999 ... and no it is not the worldwide crumbling recession ... since then I have said no more regrets ... and recently over the past 12 months ... I guess I got swept up in the hysteria of making more $$$ ... I was surrounded by people who had clear objectives and needs and they are so driven ... so when I compare myself to them (never a wise thing to do), I realized that though I am capable of so much more, I have been an underachiever never going out to tax my mental capabilities or physical abilities much ... not that I have a terrible life, mind you
So I went overboard always looking for the next job that pays more and more and more ... forgetting my principle of no-regrets ... the truth is that we have one life to live ... and while working, we must ensure that we enjoy doing what we do ... then at the end of it all, it will have been a life worth living
Do I have regrets going to Dubai? No. It's not the job that I will remember 20 years from now ... although I may recall being employed there ... but what I will remember most are the people I met along the way ... the people who matters ... and here is a quick roll call (I may missed some ... please don't get mad!):
Carlos & Chung - my first friends from our days staying in Nuran - they are the people I call up to chat when something pisses me off at work - always important to have folks who are there for you when you move to a new place
Dang - a genuine brilliant chap who goes out of his way to share what he has with people
She Chen - she makes the phrase a small world really real. We come from the same neighbourhood, in the same state in the same country of the same age group and working for the same company in Dubai. How about that, eh? And best of all, she has a patient ear for all my unending tirades against the ills of the world. HAH!
Laur - who learnt a thing or two about what it means to be non-judgmental to the people around you. I am glad you are able to see and value my contribution to your working life however brief it may be
So although some unpleasant things happened, yet for all these relationships, I am so glad I was in Dubai ... ummm I may still be in Dubai or I may not ... but for the rest of my life, I am grateful for this brief interlude ... otherwise I will never have the opportunity to meet these wonderful people ... and my life will be a little less bright for that. I may move on to elsewhere but you guys and gals are always welcome in my life
(I decided not to rant my frustrations here after all ... hehehe!)
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