Thursday, June 5, 2008

Death


Why is the title DEATH? Because I wish to share this piece of really personal news with everyone who will eventually drop by and read ... some day ... and even if no one ... well that's fine.
Since I came to Dubai, I got to know a wonderful person who coincidentally works in the same company as I and is from the same country, state, home town and neighbourhood where I grew up ... Pulau Tikus, Pulau Pinang, Malaysia. If this isn't a small world, then I don't know what is. Anyway ... she went home for a well deserved vacation last month. A couple of weeks ago, she received the disturbing news that her grandma is not doing so well. So she rushed home to be with the grandma. Originally it was meant to be this past Monday but due to ticketing she left on Tuesday reaching home Wednesday. Today she sms me that grandma has passed away. I don't know the dear old lady ... but I still feel for my friend ... at least her grandma fought to the last bit waiting for her to be home before letting go ...
And this got me to thinking once again that life is so fleeting. We never know when it ends. Sometimes we are afraid to try things, to do what our heart yearns for ... instead we keep on delaying, procrastinating ... how many of us have read those chain emails about the friend who lost touch ... and when he has his best friend's phone number ... decided not to disturb ... waiting for another day ... and when he finally called ... he found out his friend had just passed away?
Well, that is true. Life is unexpected. We never know the number of years we all have. So to all of you out there, try to live your life ... to the max. Plan for the future, yes, but also live for the present. Remember lessons from the past but do not let the past scare you from acting in the present
HAVE AN APPETITE FOR THIS LIFE YOU HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH
I know this sadness since last year ... when a friend I know since 2000 ... I lost touch with in 2004 ... late last year ... we contacted each other through friendster ... we chatted on line and exchange emails ... and we are planning to meet up end of last year or early this year ... only to my surprise ... after Christmas I received a note on my friendster ... that this friend had passed away! I thought the sender was nasty ... I replied that she shouldn't send such messages. She told me to verify with anyone else I may know. So I did. I sms a mutual friend who checked and to our surprise she passed away on Christmas day. She is in her early 40s, slim, energetic with a young daughter. It was a shock to all of us who knew her. I wish I could say I knew her well. The truth is I didn't. But for all that I know of her, I treasured her honesty and integrity best of all. And I value the friendship we shared, those precious moments
Although I am saddened that we never kept in touch more ... I am at least thankful for the past 3 months of contact ... I learnt a lot from this woman ... in her life and in her death ... and for that I am grateful
May God bless you always, Yap Lai Choo!

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