Wednesday, August 7, 2013

My House @ BL ... and a blow up with ... you-know-who

Let's start with the nicer news, shall we?

Nope BL does not mean Bacon n Lettuce ... it's the name of the local village where I am now residing. Anyway, first up was my parents and sister (naturally) and finally after many changes in schedules, I hosted JL who was my first superior in KL when I worked here in 1994. Yup that's like 2 decades ago. Isn't it nice to still be friends after all this time? Even though we probably find each other annoying some of the times? Hehehe! Truthfully, he was probably one of the nicest, most helpful man I have ever met in my entire working career if not entire life up to now. How many people would offer help and guidance to complete strangers who just became younger colleagues knowing full well that these colleagues will surpass him in a few years time?!?!! Very few, this I tell you, especially in our part of society these days where everyone thinks about their own skins first!

Anyway, that's the highlight from life in the sticks for yesterday! Hah! We met in Sg Pelek, drove to where I am staying to show him the bungalows and semi-d. Then we went further to Seri Bayu where the terrace or linked houses are that he is looking for. After that, it was a beach front drive to where all the ikan bakar shops were before finally heading up to Tg Sepat

Lunch was @ Lovers' Bridge restaurant where I initially had with Eye Sac and Case Man and again the food was not that great. And again I have to wonder why KL people pour into this place on weekends just to get a sample of the food

Then to my surprise at the small souvenir shop, he bought a bag of snacks! This is just the like ladies (expats) I brought over several months ago. Seems like people just have to buy so that location is perfect, eh?

After that, we drove around town showing him the seafood bah kut teh ... before we finally ended up at the pow and hainanese kopi area which again to my surprise he bought! He bought pow, kopi n even fruit juice! Hah!

Now to the annoying part ... I literally shouted into the phone ... I checked on my bank account and as usual found the money gone taken by Core. I messaged him asking why and instead of replying properly merely said that as I have more and not yet bankrupt (what the fuck!), he decided to take more. Also if I don't like, we cancel our China trip. Again he is threatening me, again he is spending without control, again he will ask for more regardless of my current situation and then like the fucker he is, he will then say to buy house or car or whatever. How does that work?!?!?!

Imagine if no inflation, based on what I have, I can live comfortably as a single person without ever working for next 20 years but with him, it's like 5 max?!?!?! And considering the fact that he will ever truly care for me, now you know why weeks ago, I made up my mind this is a relationship going to end. It's a matter of time only. I have given up hope on him. ARGH!

Naturally late at night, he texted he is sorry via BBM and Watsapp ... for once learning to ask for forgiveness ... instead of blaming me!

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